Friday, February 21, 2014

Last day - adoptions and farewells.......


Sitting writing this at the end of a long but good day.  Linda had a wheezy night so she and i were sitting up drinking tea and coffee at 2 am and then Dobbo had woken up with a head ache – it felt a bit like we were living in a hospital!  Us girls were up and ready to go into the playgroup at just after 8, and the boys headed off to the office. We managed to get Linda on the nebuliser before the nurse went off for the day with a child and then I got involved in all sorts of things like washing, giving out gifts and sorting out the clothes we had brought with us.

Before we knew what was happening it was 10.30 and time for the adoption ceremony to take place of two siblings who were going to be heading off to Canada. We were so pleased to have an adoption ceremony to join in with and it was quite emotional for everyone to experience.  The ceremony was lovely and the children will be heading off to Canada early next week.

Steve, Linda and I headed to the new shopping mall to source a changing mat which we successfully did in Game. This was the last purchase with the money that the St Nics children had raised and Mme Mamatela was delighted with is as hers was just looking very sad and worn out.  We got back in time for lunch which was a matter of eating leftovers and preparing for our left overs party for 13 later on.  At 3 pm having done lots of packing and chores we went to our last playtime but sadly it was pouring with rain (we have had a lot of rain this time).  I took two of the older children into a separate room  to do some colouring and all they wanted to do was sharpen the pencils!  We spent a happy half hour sharpening all the pencils!  Who knew it could be so exciting.  We had bought the children Magic Stars from England which due to the fact that we had kept them in the fridge they had amazingly not melted and we shared them out at snack time.  I demonstrated how to eat them and they sat there completely absorbed in their chocolate!  The staff were so impressed they sent them back to their houses carrying their little bags of stars to show their house mothers and all the bags i picked up were completely empty!  They were a hit.  The children do not normally eat chocolate so it was a real treat for us.

I set about to say goodbyes to people while Stephanie and Linda did lots of feeding and cuddling.  It was hard as having only been there a week I didn’t feel that i had done all that i had wanted to do. My priority has been my team and the fact I think they have all enjoyed themselves has been the most important thing for me.  Two of the housemothers had made up a lovely little song for me which they sang to me and then another housemother had cooked a huge loaf of bread which she wanted to share with me.  There were lots of hugs and some tearful farewells, especially as there were a few children who I knew i would not be seeing again, they will be adopted next time i am out here.

Fortunately Anita and Terp were sitting outside their houses so we were able to have a good old girlie natter to take away some of the pain.

We came back to the house and prepared a pretty good supper which was all our leftovers from the week and all the things from the fridge that we hadn’t managed to eat.  13 of us  (5 British and 8 Americans) sat round our tables in our house and shared a lovely meal and had a good time or sharing our high and low spots of the week.  The low spots were few and the high spots varied from holding lion cubs to a child smiling and even Terp getting excited about being able to print from her computer.  We are still sitting chatting as I am writing this and it is hard to believe that this time tomorrow we will be on a plane heading home.  We are all checked in and have plans for an early start tomorrow to have breakfast at Living Life and then hopefully driving home through the Golden Gate National Park which is beautiful.

 

It has been a great week – 3 more people have fallen in love with Beautiful Gate and have seen a different world and i look forward to their continued interest in Beautiful Gate. I have not really met anyone who, after visiting Lesotho, does not fall in love with it. It’s beauty and it’s people are just lovely.  It is a country that has frustrations and problems which make it a difficult place to live but it is the kind of place that captures your heart.  When i leave tomorrow another part of my heart will be left behind as always but i will be taking the love of the people here home with me too and each time i return i know my life never stays the same.

 

This is my last blog from Lesotho, next time I type I will be sitting in my own house! I will let you know that we will all be home. Our long drive will be followed by an 11 hour flight ........we arrive home at about 6.40 am and then back to work for us all on Monday. It will be a culture shock! I will look forward to sharing our adventures with family and friends who want to know and i look forward to coming back here again in the future both on my own and with a team. It will have to be on my own next time, it is a  very different experience bringing others but very worthwhile.  I hope and pray that everyone who has shared this time together this year has taken something home with them.

 

From Lesotho from the last time this year.....................Jenny x

 

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